Come as you are
Men arrive with different backgrounds, orientations and experiences of massage. None of that requires an explanation. The focus is on the service you have chosen, your comfort and your preferences.
First-visit nerves are ordinary
If you are unsure what to expect, say so. Your therapist will explain the appointment, how to get ready and how the session will work. You can ask questions before you book, and there is no obligation to choose a service that does not feel right.
Start with relaxation
A relaxation massage is usually the simplest first appointment: flowing massage, agreed pressure and time to switch off. Somatic bodywork has a different scope and should be discussed separately before booking.
Your comfort is the point
A professional, respectful appointment does not ask you to adopt a label, prove anything or push past your boundaries. Choose the session that suits you and speak up if you want anything adjusted.